It’s not always easy to know what to say when someone tells you they’ve been sexually assaulted. For a survivor, disclosing to someone they care about can be very difficult, so we encourage you to be as supportive and non-judgemental as possible.
Listen.
Be clear that you support that person. Saying, "I believe you," "I'm here to listen and help you in any way I can," and "You are not alone" are all supportive responses.
Be sensitive to what they are going through as part of the healing process and avoid judgement.
Encourage the survivor to get support and provide them with resources such as seeking medical care or talking to a trained counselor or sexual assault advocate. Confidential resources at NJIT include the counselors in the Center for Counseling and Psychological Services - they can be contacted at (973) 596-3414.
Encourage them to practice good self-care during this difficult time.
Allow them to make their own choices.
Most importantly, consider and protect that person’s privacy.
